Woman distraught by text on boyfriend's phone after helping him through cancer
Finding out your partner has been unfaithful is heart-breaking to anyone, but discovering they've betrayed you after you've supported them through serious health struggles is even worse. One woman found out her partner had been keeping a shocking secret from her for their whole relationship. Wanting to leave him - she's stuck on whether to wait, as he's currently getting treatment for cancer.
When she realised her partner, who is 20 years older than she is, had been lying to her about his ex partner, she was left devastated. Knowing that his ex was jealous of their relationship, she found a shocking series of texts between the pair, and realised he'd never stopped seeing her. Wanting to leave him, she wonders if she should wait until his condition improves.
Asking for advice online, she admitted she's hurt as they had been together for a few years, and detailed that he is "friends with his ex". According to her, the ex tried "everything in her power to get back together with him", but was unsuccessful, she thought, as her partner had reassured her nothing was going on.
Posting on Reddit, the woman shared her situation, asking whether she should leave him or not. She wrote: "I had access to see his messages to her (I know I know I know )I went back to over a year and a half ago to when she found out about us, and oh man did I have the dissolution of my life.
"He wasn't being clear at all, he was actively involved in texting her planning dates, calling babe, baby, honey. Sending messages constantly to met up, and occasional fight about still being with me, and this only stop back in March when he went into cancer treatment, he never stop seeing her, telling her how much he enjoyed their time together."
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When he started his cancer treatment, she explained she stepped up to assist him as much as she could as he's in a "critical condition" but now she has revealed his messages, wants to leave him. She added: "We don't live together, but you name it, cook, clean, drove him to appointments. Now he's in somewhat critical condition and I want to leave him, but he's living alone and has no kids.
"I drive an hour to go see him and help him, I saw a message to her, he was willing to drive to go see her just two weeks ago, I usually go to him so he can be comfortable. I'm rambling now. I'm deeply hurt. Should I wait until he's completely healthy?"
People flocked to the comments section to give their opinion on the saga, as one brutally wrote: "Let's call it what it is. He had an affair the entire time of your relationship. A cancer patient needs intense care and it takes a lot of sacrifices, energy and time from the caretaker. It's an act of love. But he would never do the same for you. Because he's just playing you. Leave him and let the other woman take care of him. You are not the only one he has."
As another penned: "A lying cheating a**hole with cancer is still a lying cheating asshole. Cancer doesn't give anyone a free pass to treat people like s**t (unless it's in the brain, to be fair). Just leave him."
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