Heartbroken families remember Nottingham victims as thousands attend vigil
The families of the victims of the Nottingham rampage united in grief yesterday as the defiant city fell silent in their memory.
Barnaby Webber’s devastated mum Emma told 5,000 people in Old Market Square to “hold no hate” as she paid tribute to her son.
She was joined by Sinead Kumar, whose daughter Grace O’Malley-Kumar, 19, died alongside her fellow student on Tuesday.
The family of school caretaker Ian Coates, who was stabbed to death in the attack as he drove to work, also attended the vigil.
Emma, from Taunton, Somerset, described her son’s killer as a “monstrous individual” - but bravely said “he will not define us”.
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She added: “I know he will receive the retribution that he deserves.
However, this evil person is just that. He is just a person.
“Please hold no hate that relates to any colour, sex or religion.”
The rampage suspect is an engineering graduate who studied at the same university as two of his alleged victims.
Valdo Calocane, 31, is being quizzed over the three murders that shocked the nation.
Nottingham fell silent for one minute at 6pm, with thousands gathering in the city’s main square.
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Grace Kumar (left) dreamed of becoming a doctor (PA)Grace’s mother Sinead, flanked by her father and Grace's younger brother said: “Thank you for showing love for our babies … she was so beautiful on the inside, she was a treasured and adored child, she wanted few things in life.
"She wanted to be a doctor, and she wanted to play hockey, and she wanted to have fun … that’s what all students want.
"And they were walking home, they were just walking home … I’ll echo what my husband said yesterday, be kind to each other, don’t hold hate in your heart, say prayers for my baby girl."
She added how communities from both Grace's and Banarby's hometowns were also left shocked and in grieving from the attack.
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The family of Grace Kumar, one of the students who was killed on Tuesday, at the vigil tonight in Nottingham (Ian Vogler / Daily Mirror)In an emotional speech, Grace's brother said: “As Grace’s younger brother I want to thank everyone here for coming for the lost lives of our loved ones … and my family for flying over … Grace wasn’t just a sister to me, she was a best friend of mine … if there’s only one message I urge you all to cherish every moment you spend with your loved ones as you just never know when it will end.”
Following on, Grace's father said: "We were four and we were now three .. and is the same for Barney’s family."
Barnaby Webber: 'Dreams of being an RAF pilot'
Barnaby's younger brother Charlie (left), his mum Emma (centre) and his dad David (right) at the vigil tonight (Ian Vogler / Daily Mirror)Barnaby’s mother Emma, flanked by his younger brother Charlie and father David, fondly remembered her son.
In a moving speech, she said: “He loved pesto pasta and hated cottage pie. He was obsessed with aeroplanes and carried the dream of being an RAF pilot one day. I’m not sure how a history degree from Nottingham was part of that plan.”
She recalled how proud of his little brother he was, and how much he loved the city of Nottingham.
"Like David said we couldn’t bloody get him home half the time." she said.
She continued: "When he was accepted to study here in August of last year, he was so bloody chuffed … to his teammates I can see you, we thank you for all you have done to remember him already. And I know you have so much more planned.
Barnaby studied history, but had dreams of being an RAF pilot"Today we stand here, and feel your love and are united in grief and shock and disbelief. One day we will smile again but that will take time.
"There was one letter [amongst the tributes] written really beautifully … this person wrote an outpouring of love and confusion and grief, they said: ‘I don’t know what to do, I have to write this because I have no friends … but if you want to talk to me, I will be waiting on terrace’ … I only got this message this morning, but you do have friends."
"The monstrous individual who shattered our life will not define us, he will receive the retribution he deserves … he is just an evil person, please hold no hate that donates to any colour, sex or religion.
"My beautiful beautiful boy, you have mine, your dad and your brother’s heart forever."
Ian Coates: 'He loved his family, he loved his Forest'
Ian's three sons took to the stage at the vigil to remember their late father (Ian Vogler / Daily Mirror)Wearing Nottingham Forest shirts, to the football club’s chants, three of Ian’s family took the stage.
Ian’s son opened by offering their condolences to the family’s of Barnaby and Grace, and thanked the “beautiful comments” from people who spoke warmly and lovingly on his dad.
In a short and touching speech, he said: “My dad was an avid fisherman, he loved his family, and he loved his Forest [Nottingham Forest FC].”
Community leaders and thousands of locals turned out to remember the three peopleand the crowd took part in a minute's silence in memory.
The silence fell over the city’s Market Square as the Council House’s bells tolled for 6pm.
The city of Nottingham was united in their grief after the attack on Tuesday (PA)Heart-shaped balloons with the words “choose love” were held by one woman near the stage.
Cllr David Melen said: "Nottingham is a great city, and a city where the events we've seen this week shock us so much because they are so unusual ... we have a city that is safe and welcoming ... we must not allow fear to grip our streets, and become the dominant emotion."
The families of Grace, Barnaby and Ian were all sat in front of Nottingham Council House as many stood and watched on in the Thursday afternoon sunshine.
Recalling a sweet story about Mr Coates, a devoted grandfather who was just four months from retirement, Headteacher of Huntingdon Academy Ross Middleton remembered how he kept the school and students safe during the Covid pandemic, and showed his love and joy partaking in a year six water fight.
He added the 65-year-old was “proud” of his grandson.
Paying tribute to the caretaker, Mr Middleton said he was “full of fun with a mischievous glint in his eye”.
Caretaker Ian Coates helped young kids keep out of trouble at school (Miro Photography)He said: “We will all remember him with great affection. Rest in peace Ian, and, of course, I’ll keep an eye on Forest results for you.”
Grace volunteered with the Covid vaccination programme through the pandemic and Barnaby was described as "fun, friendly and full of life", the head of Nottingham University Professor Shearer West said.
She added that the university was still reeling from the revalation that the suspect was a former student.
She said: “All three of these lives were cut short in the most unimaginable way on Tuesday morning.
“Their well-earned retirement plans and bright futures brutally curtailed by a seemingly random act of violence.
“At the university, we held our own vigil yesterday with Barney and Grace’s families to remember them and mourn their loss.
“I was overwhelmed by the love and support that was offered to the families by more than 2,000 students and staff who gathered together as a community.
Mayor of Nottingham, Wendy Smith, speaks as she attends a vigil in Old Market Square, Nottingham (PA)“Although seemingly unconnected to these dreadful acts, we are still in the university trying to process the information that the suspect in custody was a former student.”
Nottingham's MPs said they were "united in their grief" over the "loss of three much loved members of our community".
MP Alex Norris said "everybody seemed to have a story about how Ian touched their lives" including "multiple young men who were struggling with school" who Ian took the time to speak to them and help them through school and their lives.
Headteacher of Huntingdon Academy Ross Middleton, where Nottingham attack victim Ian Coates was site manager, said the 65-year-old was “proud” of his grandson.
Paying tribute to the caretaker, Mr Middleton said he was “full of fun with a mischievous glint in his eye”.
He said: “We will all remember him with great affection. Rest in peace Ian, and, of course, I’ll keep an eye on Forest results for you.”
Wearing Nottingham Forest shirts, to the football club’s chants, three of Ian’s family took the stage.
Ian’s son opened by offering their condolences to the family’s of Barnaby and Grace.
He thanks the “beautiful comments” from people who spoke warmly and lovingly on his dad.
Thousands turned out to the vigil today with the crowd stretching half a kilometre (Ian Vogler / Daily Mirror)“My dad was an avid fisherman, he loved his family, and he loved his Forest.”
The suspect allegedly responsible for the Nottingham attacks attended the same university as two of the three victims - and the institution is "devastated".
The 31-year-man, named as mechanical engineering graduate Valdo Amissão Mendes Calocane, studied at University of Nottingham, police said today.
They confirmed the link in a statement, in which they also said officers have been granted another 36 hours to question the suspect and admitted it has referred itself to the watchdog Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC).
Grace's father wipes away tears as he remembered his daughter (Ian Vogler / Daily Mirror)A marked police car followed behind the suspect’s van for a short distance before it collided with the two pedestrians, it has emerged.
Three people were injured after being hit by a van, including 58-year-old Wayne Birkett. The factory worker, a huge Leeds United supporter, was mowed down moments after he got off a bus.
Earlier today, Nottingham University Hospitals confirmed that one of the three people had been discharged and the other two remained in a stable condition.
Mr Birkett had originally been fighting for his life after he was injured on Milton Street, in the city.
Detectives in the city are continuing to question the man and build up a strong picture of what happened on Tuesday morning.
Nottinghamshire Police has stressed the suspect's time at the Russell Group university is not linked to the deaths.
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