Man gets reality check after moaning about his chatty eight-year-old neighbour
A man has been given a reality check after grumbling about his eight-year-old neighbour who visits him daily for a chat. He explained how the youngster knocks on his door almost every evening - and ends up overstaying his welcome each and every time.
Taking to Quora to express his frustration, he said: "Our neighbour's eight-year-old drops by our house almost every afternoon and chats away about anything and everything until we ask him to leave. He's a sweet kid, but it's becoming a pain. What should we do?"
But instead of offering ways to stop the visits, users encouraged the man to be more welcoming to the young boy who just wants to be friends. One user responded: "I urge you to continue to be kind and patient with this garrulous child. Who knows what hunger brings him to your door? Maybe no one at home is willing or able to listen. Maybe he is profoundly lonely.
"If you involve him in your activities, he'll keep talking, of course, but you'll still get stuff done. As he gets older, he may drift away of his own accord. He may forget you entirely. Or you may be among the most beloved people from his childhood.
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"I cannot think of any way to ban him or cut back on his visits without breaking his heart. If that is something you don't mind doing, then he did indeed come to the wrong door." Another woman shared her experience with a similar situation involving an eight year old boy who visited her daily after school.
She said: "I had just had a baby so I wasn't going anywhere so it was fine with me. He would tell me a little about his day and then watch cartoons and he would brush my hair when I sat down. He is 51-years-old now and still loves me.
"As my daughter got older, I would sit and listen to her friends as they talked to me. I talked to them like they were friends. I didn't correct them, or talk down to them or judge them. I just listen. Sometimes when they told me horrible stuff, I would get stressed and bake cookies. The more kids talk, the less they need a psychologist."
While another user admitted to "feeling ashamed" of himself after sending away children who wanted to spark up a conversation with him after spotting him in his yard. He said: "There have been many times in my past where I sought solace and quiet working in my garden while my own young kids were at school.
"One time in particular a family moved into the rental house next door who had a large number of young kids. The ones who weren't yet old enough for school would invariably, see me outside and come over into my yard to play loudly and visit. I wish I could say I was kind and welcoming, but I was not.
"I may have smiled on the outside and said hello, but inwardly I was very resentful and viewed their presence as an intrusion on my quiet time to recharge while my own kids were at school. Having grown up in a stable loving home, it never crossed my mind that those kids could have been looking for some safe and friendly place to play."
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