Dating guru shares chat-up lines to make men 'obsessed' with you
Are you currently in the market for a new man? Well, a self-certified ‘dating guru’ has revealed the simple ways you can easily “humble” three different types of guys to make them completely “obsessed” with you.
According to Courtney Shields, from the US, she is well-known in her friendship group for being the “best” flirt and using her talents to chat guys up, get under their skin, and generally have them thinking about only her.
The influencer, who boasts 452,300 TikTok followers and 9.3 million likes across her many videos, revealed all in a new post what women can say if they want to be “unforgettable”. She told the camera: “Here are some savage things to say to a guy when you want to flirt and get under his skin at the same time. If you want to be unforgettable, I got you.
“This is going to leave him thinking about you because you're flirting but you're doing it in kind of a slightly mean but funny way. And not a lot of people really know how to nail this.” Courtney then revealed that these chat-up lines work best in proper scenarios, rather than over text, so the guys can feel the humour.
She went on: “It's funny if there's a little bit of irony mixed in. So for example, number one, use this on some guy who's very athletic looking or looks like he gives a s**t basically about being athletic. Some sort of compliment that he's probably getting on a regular basis. You're just going to look at him and say, ‘you look like a big pickleball guy’.”
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Explaining her thinking, she went on: “He's not going to know how to take this. He's going to wonder if you're calling him athletic, if it's a compliment or if you're calling him basic. Because I feel like every other guy on the dating apps right now is like someone to play pickleball with me. It's just so basic right now and everyone does it.”
For those not in the know, pickleball is the fastest-growing sport in America and combines elements of tennis, ping-pong, and badminton. The rules are pretty simple to learn and it’s an easy game for beginners to learn.
Continuing her method, Courtney explained that this next line is for the guys who you might suspect are “players” and have several girls on the go, or at least wish they had. She went on: “You don't want him to view you that way he views every other girl. So you're going to just look at him and say, ‘this is going to be hard for you’, after you've been talking for a little while, flirting for a couple of hours, and he's going to be like, ‘what's going to be hard for me?’ And then you're going to look back at him, eye contact, obviously, and you're going to say, ‘not getting what you want’.”
Courtney went on to say that it’s really important to stick to this and not give the player what he wants, even if you are desperate for it to go somewhere. She added: “You have to be hard to get. Not play hard to get, but be hard to get.”
Next up on the dating chat-up list is for the guys who define themselves by their height. You know the ones. Courtney continued: “This one can only be used on someone that's tall or kind of tall. So six feet and above. If you're six feet and above, you pretty much always meet people's height requirements. A lot of girls who have height requirements, and you're pretty much already meeting the mark there.”
She went on: “So you're probably walking around feeling pretty damn good about your height, but we are here to humble you. And obviously, if someone is short, this would just come off as rude. And we're not trying to be rude, we’re trying to be playful. That's why he's got to be, like, at least six feet.
“You're just gonna look at him and say, ‘I remember you being a little taller+’. And he's gonna be like, what? I'm 6 2. What do you mean you remember me being taller? I'm, I am tall’.” Finishing that, Courtney revealed she had plenty more chat-up lines to humble every type of man going and promised to follow up with some more tips later.
People in the comments were thrilled with Courtney’s advice and rushed to share their own tips and stories. One person wrote: “The guy I'm talking to plays tennis - the pickleball thing will really pinch.” Another viewer commented: “I used the height one last weekend and he was so offended he took out his ID to confirm he's 6ft.”
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