23 March 2023 , 15:35
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A self-confessed 'trad-wife' has admitted she allows her husband to sleep with other women whenever he wants - as she'll do anything to keep him happy. Monica Huldt, who now lives in Arizona, America, says she is so dedicated to her husband that she doesn't mind him going against their wedding vows to be each others special somebody until death do them part.
For Monica, putting her husband, John's, needs before her own has become second nature, as she states being a traditional housewife is her "love language". During an interview with YouTube channel Love Don't Judge, the 37-year-old said: "I've always had a submissive side since I can remember and I've always been drawn to assertive and dominant males.
Monica allows her husband, John, to sleep with whoever he wants, whenever he wants (Jam Press/@swedish_bella_backup)"I love to make people I love feel good. It's not like I'm a hopeless little girl, it's not that. It's just he's assertive and I like that in a man."
Monica went on to explain how 98 per cent of her day revolves around her husband - with her taking on all household tasks while he goes out to work.
Even when cleaning the house, she makes sure to put on make up and dress up nice, so her husband has something nice to look at.
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"My mum told me, 'be pretty and in good shape because nobody wants a fat and ugly wife'," she added.
While her mum supports her 'trad-wife' lifestyle, her friends do not (Jam Press/@swedish_bella)But not everybody in Monica's life supports her 'trad-wife' lifestyle, with her closest friends claiming she's "lost her dignity" by allowing him to sleep with other women.
She said: "I know in my heart that he loves me because he comes home to me, he takes really good care of me.
"I can see how people that don't know us might think, 'oh that's not healthy', or 'that's bad', but I think if you're a good person and you're with someone you really, really love and you're soulmates, it's a whole different thing.
"I love my marriage and I love him, and I don't think there's anything stopping us from living like this always."
"I've actually had childhood friends reach out telling me I've lost my dignity as a woman and I also shouldn't have children because I would be a horrible mum because we do what we do."
Defending their lifestyle, John said: "It's a luxury I have that probably most guys wish they had, just because of genetic programming.
"If you look at all the other mammals, how they do it, typically the alpha male gets to bang all the females.
"I think it just makes for a much more relaxed relationship because there's nothing in my life that I desire that I can't have. And I think that makes me a better husband."