Meghan and Harry would face 'disaster' if they reunite with Royals, expert says
With Christmas fast approaching, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry have some big decisions to make.
For the past few years, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have spent the holidays in America after stepping back from the Royal Family in 2020. However, there's been mounting speculation that the couple could be heading back to the UK to spend Christmas with The Firm.
Sources have suggested Meghan and Harry are eager to be given an invite to a Royal Christmas, but they are yet to hear from the Royals. Relationship expert Kate Mansfield has said it could spell disaster amid their ongoing feud with the Royal Family.
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Meghan Markle and Prince Harry last spent Christmas with the Royals in 2018 (Getty Images)Speaking exclusively to The Mirror, Kate said: "As is the case for many of us at Christmas, the desire for family time and unity is strong and so it makes sense that Meghan and Harry might get caught up in this fantasy idea of a family Christmas in the UK, but the reality of the situation is that there is much animosity between them and the rest of the family, and if it is true that there is actually no invite, that sounds pretty painful."
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She also said Harry might struggle to be around his brother Prince William after a growing rift between them. "I think that Christmas offers two options, we can use it as a time for forgiveness and building bridges, or to dig up resentments and so the key is really being intentional about it," Kate said.
She added: "Sweeping issues under the carpet and then hoping for the best is usually a disaster, and this would certainly be the case between Harry and William, given their recent disagreements." Relationship expert Louella Alderson agrees.
She explained: "It would likely be difficult for Harry to be around his brother, Prince William, after their strained relationship, especially during a holiday gathering. There appear to still be unresolved issues and hurt feelings between the two brothers that could make it challenging for them to spend time together in a festive setting.
The Duke of Sussex might find it difficult connecting with his brother (Martin Meissner/AP/REX/Shutterstock)"New rumours and information are continually coming out about their difficult relationship, which is likely adding fuel to the fire and making it more challenging for them to reconcile. It may take time and effort on both sides for their relationship to heal, but it's certainly possible in the future if they are willing to work through their issues."
Louella suggested both brothers are likely to be "hurt" and feeling "a sense of betrayal from each other". She explained: "This would make it difficult for them to be in the same room without tension or conflict. These types of wounds need time to heal, and it's understandable that they may not be ready to face each other just yet. Christmas is a time for family and joy, and it may be best for both Prince Harry and Prince William to spend the holiday season apart in order to focus on their own healing and well-being."
She said it's also unlikely that the Royal Family would welcome Meghan and Harry warmly after "the continued scrutiny and criticism Meghan and Harry have directed towards them." Both experts encouraged the couple to spend Christmas in America.
Kate said Meghan would find a UK Christmas particularly hard due to her tensions with her extended family. Kate said: "My advice would be to just have a small and cosy Christmas with her hubby and the kids at home!"
Meghan and Harry are likely to spend Christmas in America (Getty Images)Louella added: "Meghan's relationship with the Royals could be beyond repair for both sides to come together at any time in the near future, especially during the Christmas season." She suggested both sides "may need more time and space" before they reunite.
Louella continued: "Christmas doesn't feel like the right time for either party to try and reconcile or mend their relationship, as it feels like a lot of work and healing needs to be done to lay the groundwork for real progress can be made. It's important for both parties to prioritise their emotional well-being and do what is best for themselves during this holiday season."
If Meghan and Harry were to return to the UK, they should "weigh up the pros and cons", according to Louella. She added: "Things can change in the future if both sides are willing to work towards reconciliation and understanding. But for now, it seems that Meghan and Harry will likely be spending Christmas elsewhere, surrounded by supportive friends and family who have been there for them throughout their journey."
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