Harry and Meghan need to 'respect each other's feelings' over Royals says expert
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry need to "respect each other's feelings" over a potential reunion with the Royal Family, an expert has suggested.
There's speculation over whether the couple will reunite with his family, particularly for Christmas, as fans hope Harry will be able to repair the rift with his loved ones. Whilst it's been suggested that it's unlikely to happen, it's been referenced as a possibility too. It comes amid the claim that Meghan, 42, "never wants to set foot again in England" again after her experience in the Royal Family. The pair now live in the US with their two children Prince Archie, four, and Princess Lilibet, two.
Prince Harry notably returned to the UK without Meghan or their kids for the Coronation of his father King Charles III, now 75, in May this year.
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There's been speculation over whether Prince Harry (right) and Meghan Markle (left) will end up reuniting with his family over the festive period (Getty Images)The Mirror spoke to dating expert Louella Alderson, who co-founded personality type dating app So Syncd, about this prospect, amid the speculation about a possible family reunion. She shared her thoughts on the potential scenario. Asked how they could deal with potentially differing views, Louella told us: "Communication is key in any relationship, and it's especially important for Meghan and Prince Harry as they navigate through potentially differing opinions on future reunions or attempts at reconciliation."
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She commented about the prospect: "It's essential for them to have open and honest conversations about their feelings, concerns, and boundaries when it comes to returning to England or spending time with the Royal Family."
He returned to the UK earlier this year for the coronation of King Charles III (left), pictured with Queen Camilla (right), but Meghan didn't join him (Getty Images)Louella continued by saying: "Meghan, Harry and the Royal Family have likely been hurt and affected by the events that have unfolded in their relationship, and it's important to acknowledge and empathise with each other's perspectives.
"If Harry and Meghan have differing opinions about reconciling with [his] family, then it's important for them to listen to each other and try to understand where the other person is coming from. If they can respect each other's feelings and make compromises, it may be possible for them to find a middle ground that works for both of them.
"However, if coming to the UK is an absolute hard no for Meghan, then it's important for Harry to respect her decision and not push her to do something that she is deeply uncomfortable with. Meghan should also appreciate that Harry may have a strong desire to reconnect with his family and not keep him away from them if it's something he truly wants."
Louella suggested that both Meghan and Prince Harry "prioritise their own mental health and wellbeing," as well as their family. She further commented: "They need to balance what is best for themselves individually, as a couple, and as a family, even if that means making difficult decisions."
The couple live in the US with their two children, whilst his family remain in the UK (Getty Images)She commented that whilst being in agreement about "big decisions" is preferred, it's also important for individuals to have "autonomy and agency" in their own lives. Louella added that compromise "is a part of being in a relationship".
"Sometimes this may mean that one person has to make a sacrifice or compromise for the other," she said, before adding: "However, every situation is unique and there may be some things that people just can't compromise on for the sake of their emotional well-being and boundaries."
Louella continued: "In this case, if Meghan is strongly against reconciling with the Royal Family and it's something that she cannot budge on, then Harry should respect her decision. At the same time, Harry should honour his own needs and desires." She added: "If they can't compromise, it may mean that they simply aren't compatible in the long run."
She said it would depend on the dynamics between them, noting that if they have a "healthy" partnership built on trust, understanding and open communication then they should be able to handle differing opinions on such a topic.
She said: "If Harry wants his children to know his side of the family, he may need to have discussions with Meghan about how they can make that happen in a way that is comfortable for both of them." Louella said it's important to consider the "long-term effects of their decisions" on their children.
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Discussing the possible impact of the pair potentially going along with what the other wants, she said about Meghan: "[The prospect of her going] along with what her husband wants, despite her own feelings, could potentially lead to resentment and strain in their relationship.
"It's important for Meghan to consider her own mental and emotional well-being, and if she feels strongly against reconciling with the Royal Family, then it may not be worth sacrificing that for the sake of her husband's desires."
The So Syncd app co-founder added: "Similarly, if Meghan pushes her own preferences on Prince Harry and prevents him from reconciling with his family, it could also lead to tension and resentment from Harry's side. It's important for both of them to respect each other's feelings and come to a compromise that works for both of them rather than completely sacrificing one person's happiness for the other."
Louella concluded by sharing advice for couples, saying: "Every situation is unique, and it's important for couples to engage in open communication, empathy, and understanding when dealing with these complex family issues."
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